What is help?
The dictonary meaning of the word "help" is 'make something easier,better (for someone)'. When do we expect help? Only in the times when when we r in desperate need of, rest of the times any person with a wee bit of self respect denies it. But accepting help in 'need' is a wise thing to do.Helping someone can be any form or in any way. It can come in form of some actual action,it can be financial or even just emotional(These r the only 3 i can remember of, there r chances of few more types too).The 'helping' feeling can come from within or it is sometimes forced on you. When it comes from inside one tends to reach out and help whole heartedly without even thinking twice before doing anything, but if its forced then we perform at the minimum most possible level. The best way of providing help is to recognise the need and act accordingly. The best fruit of helping someone comes when it is appreciated and cherished and not quantified there and then itself. In the first part we can expect to be bailed out of some situation by the person whom u have helped some time, but in the later part no such expectations can be kept. I am sure everyone must have experienced being helped by someone without even asking him/her for it. Thats a true human being my friend.I have personally experienced this.So i will like to say that always help people close to u and do not keep scores as someone invisibly helping u may not be keeping any.Adieu.